Getting off track is part of the process.
This is what I try to remind myself when I’m frustrated with my progress, or when I’ve fallen (yet again) into the grooves and patterns I’ve been trying to unlearn.
I remind myself that we forget so that we can remember. And that it’s the work of going back in, returning to the practices I know work for me, and trying again that deepens transformation.
When we learn (again) what we already know, we’re building resiliency and capacity.
So there’s an opportunity in these moments of failure and frustration to remember that living a good life isn’t about doing it perfectly or always staying on track – it’s about finding our way back and developing practices of pausing, noticing, and returning to what we know in those hard moments.
So if things go awry, no need to panic! You have what you need to take that first step back toward where you want to be.